Rings on or off:
On-I never had to take them off last time, so I figure that I’ll be fine this time. I did have a reaction to metal during my last pregnancy, which lead to a rash on my ring finger. This time, all is well!
Anything sweet. Candy. Cookies. Ice cream. Fruit. Christmas Tree Cakes. I try to keep it all in moderation, but it is pretty nice to have an excuse to eat whatever you want 🙂
I’m still not a fan of raw meat or anything with strong smells or flavors. Thankfully, I have an appetite again and I don’t feel like I’m going to puke all day.
This baby is carrying lower than Donovan did. I am also having way more pelvic and hip pain, which is supposedly caused by stretching ligaments. When I stay active it doesn’t seem to bother me as much.
The long flight to Barcelona was way harder on my body than I expected. On the way there, I slept in a weird position and had lower back pain for a few weeks. As if being pregnant wasn’t hard enough on my back! I also had to pee a million times on both flights. Sitting in one position for long periods of time is not comfortable, so I felt pretty miserable on the flight home. Oh, and add a fidgety toddler to the mix. It was a loooong flight.
Does Donovan know what is going on?
I think he is understanding more and more. During Christmas, he was very interested in Baby Jesus and once the holiday was over, he began referring to the baby as Baby Jesus…I had to help him understand the difference 🙂
When did you start feeling the baby move?
It was some time around 20 weeks and my trip to Chicago. Those hiccups. They are hard to miss. The rest just feels like flutters.
What are you doing to get ready for the new baby?
Not much yet. Just lots of thinking about doing things. With all of our traveling, BOLD and work, the holidays, and just general lack of anxiety this time around, we just haven’t really made any moves to get things in order. I am certainly a planner and I know that we have lots to do, but I also know that what needs to get done, will get done. The rest is extra.
Any predictions about the sex?
I think girl and Doug thinks boy. Donovan is still certain that he is having a “sissy”.
Any names chosen yet?
I thought that we had our names set from the get-go. But, Doug just didn’t seem as excited about these names as he did last time. So, we have been looking for inspiration and we have yet to decide.
Other differences this time around?
It is nice to not feel so anxious and uncertain about what was to come. Doug and I both know what to expect so we just pray for a healthy pregnancy, delivery, and baby. Not finding out the sex also takes some pressure off of us to have certain clothes and everything monogrammed…like I would anyway 🙂
All of the doctor appointments are way more annoying this time, since it is all pretty boring until the end. Plus, I forgot how much they stick you and take your blood in the second trimester. I go to a large practice so I see different doctors for each visit. It is interesting to get to know each of them and understand their different perspectives and personalities.
I am lucky that I haven’t really gotten too big either. Some people really have no idea that I am pregnant. And, I sometimes forget, too. I’m not too uncomfortable and I can still do pretty much anything that I want. If I overdo it, then of course I feel it, but for the most part, I have to remind myself that I am pregnant and to slow down. Donovan certainly keeps me pretty busy. I am still able to wear Donovan (thank goodness!) and I am still breastfeeding.
One of the biggest differences is work. Last time, I was in a college setting with students who, I’m pretty sure, were just worried that being pregnant was a contagious condition. I didn’t get a lot of attention from them or tons of questions about how I was feeling. And, no one touched me, ever…which, I was ok with! This time around, I work with more people who have their own children or grandchildren. They have experienced pregnancy and are so open and friendly about discussing their experiences and want to know how I am doing. And, the touching of the belly is way more of a frequent occurrence. This time around, I am ok with it.
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