Leaving my job in May was a huge accomplishment for our family. It opened up more time for us to spend focusing on our priories and allowed for more quality time together. May was a blur as I adjusted to the reality that I now had time to do everything and anything I had ever wanted. And I was loving all of the time with my little guy.
I am grateful to work for an amazing company that invests in their agents by providing opportunities for learning and growth. Ignite is an intense course that allows new agents to learn the nuts and bolts of the job. I found myself in the classroom three days a week and it was overwhelming at times. As a new agent you do not always know what you should spend your time on or how to really do anything. Working with Doug was awesome because he had already paved the way and had systems and leads ready for me. At the same time, we had to learn how to really work together. In everyday life you work with your spouse to coordinate schedules, plan meals, take care of the house, and spend time together as a family. You communicate all the time and share how you feel about different situations. Yet, when you work together in a professional environment, we found that we had to work through some differing expectations until we were on the same page.
I was hungry to prove myself as a competent part of our team, yet I needed Doug’s insight or input to accomplish the simplest task. I am thankful that my husband held my hand and was patient with me, because, let’s be real, in life no one can really do that for you in any other work situation. At the same time, I know I drove him nuts because I needed so much help. The summer is an especially busy time in the real estate world and I jumped right in. I worked with two buyers right away and learned so much in the process. I quickly learned how my schedule would always be changing depending on the needs of my clients and it was nice to work hard one day and be ok with taking some time to relax the next. I came to realize that working in real estate is all about problem solving and being flexible.
Here are a few of the out-takes from our headshot photo shoot:
Someone once told me that in life you should really try to avoid making big life changes when you are in the middle of transition. And, if you must, you should really try to keep it to no more than two big things at once. Some how I have never really been able to follow that advice. When I finished grad school, we got married, moved to a new state, started new jobs, and adopted Stella. Three years later, we moved back to Florida, started new jobs, bought a house, and all of this with a child under one. You would think that starting a new job was enough excitement for our lives, right?
Well, Doug and I were lucky enough to celebrate our fourth wedding anniversary on Lido beach. GiGi and Granddad were more than thrilled to watch the little guy for us so we could enjoy our first weekend away. Doug and I were sitting at the Charthouse enjoying a bottle of wine and reflecting on life. The topic of our next child came up. We had always said that after Donovan turned one that we would at least begin the conversation about LBD 2. For me, parenthood has been a calling that I never knew I would love as much as I do. It is no secret that I want to have multiple children now, but I suppose it is best to take it one at a time. As we talked about the future and our family, Doug made the bold statement that he was ready for LBD 2. I was stunned. I was mostly surprised by the certainty with which he made this statement. And, I was also caught off guard by the fact that I was the one who was hesitating at all.
Of course, we knew that there were no guarantees with getting pregnant. We were very lucky with how quickly we got pregnant the first time. And, then you do have nine months of pregnancy before the baby would arrive. So, really you could be looking at a full year before life would truly turn up-side down. So, we talked about it more and as we were leaving dinner, we had decided to start trying and see what happened.
Looking back, it is comical how easily we made that decision. The first time around, we talked about every possible scenario over and over for about a week before we both felt really ready. This time, we knew what we were in for and we knew we could do it. We wanted our family to grow. And, we were pretty lucky again. Sure enough, I was pregnant by the end of the month!
First Car Accident
At the Chadwick Company Picnic
Teaching Donovan how to be a buyers agent and climb stairs 🙂
First trip to the library! Book Worms Rule!
Magic dust for the win! Bandanna to save my hair not for fashion 🙂
And we can’t forget Father’s Day! I have never mowed the lawn before and I knew that Doug would really appreciate it, so I gave it a try and it was really hard! I don’t think that I will volunteer for that chore ever again 😉
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