My last day at USF was May 1st. It was strange leaving a job that I had only been in for less than a year. I had no regrets leaving and I was looking forward to my new career in real estate and more time at home with my little man.
I greatly miss my co-worker, Melissa, who taught me how to be an advisor. How to ask the right questions and know what students really mean by their questions. She is such a dedicated and hard working woman. I am thankful that she was there to show me the ropes and keep me from losing it when I was frustrated or down.
I was most happy to say good-by to my breast pump. Three times a day was getting old, but Donovan wasn’t ready to wean. I gave up a lot of opportunities to connect with colleagues and friends so that I could pump during my lunch. I also learned that it is ok, and frankly, good to take breaks during the day. It helps you refocus and turn your attention back to your work with a fresh mind. I was so thankful for a job that allowed me the flexibility to pump and that Donovan and I were able to keep our nursing relationship going.
Rachel arrived home from FSU that same night, so obviously, some Champagne was in order!
Rachel Turned 21
Cinco de Mayo might be the best date to turn 21. It certainly is a special day in our lives as it is Rachie’s birthday. We celebrated at Don Pablos for dinner and toured the Village for Rachel’s first LEGAL night out. Look out world, all of the Schwartz sisters are legal! In other news, I am old. 10pm was WAY too late for me to be out. But, we were happy to celebrate Rachel’s milestone 🙂
We enjoyed an awesome beach day with the Motley’s. We also stepped up our beach game by purchasing a pop-up tent to keep the little ones in the shade. Also, Donovan likes to eat sand…
Mother’s Day is one of my new favorite holidays as it is a reminder of how much I love my new role as a mom. I never knew that I could be so thankful for my little guy or how much he would change me. I also find myself appreciating my own mother in new ways. She has taught me more than I will ever know and she has helped me in more ways than I can count. Being a mom is a tough job and one that doesn’t always get the thanks that it deserves. But, it is the best and I am thankful to have the best mom around!
During the riots in Baltimore, the Rays hosted an extra game with general admission for all. We got a big group together and enjoyed the Sunday game! The Rays won!
Donovan the Toddler
It seems that since Donovan turned one, he has grown and changed so quickly. He loves practicing animal sounds and he has quite the repertoire already. He still loves reading books, but now he likes to try to read them to himself.
He has always loved exploring, but now he is into everything and he cannot be contained. Every ordinary object is now a new toy yet to be discovered. And, have I mentioned that he loves to climb on everything?!?
As much as I see him growing up into a big guy before my eyes, he still needs his Momma. Especially when he is sick 😦 He is loving the extra time with me at home!
Adjusting to the new job
It is strange to wake up one day with a whole new schedule and set of priorities. I no longer turn into a crabby person on Sundays nights as I scramble to get the chores done and the family ready for the new week. I still have responsibilities and things to do, but now I have time to do them and I’m not up against a stressful and dreaded Monday deadline.
It is nice to drive with Doug to work and to drop off Donovan for only three half days of daycare. I wasn’t easy learning the ropes of a new job, but Doug is a patient and amazing teacher. He puts up with my lack of knowledge and encourages me to work on projects that utilize the strengths that I bring to our team.
Working from home is not as easy as it seems. There are distractions everywhere. And, mostly, it is the cute little boy who needs me. I try to be as productive as possible, but sometimes, work has to wait.
One of the many perks of working with you spouse are lunch dates. With Donovan at daycare, we can find time to eat and catch up. We talk about work a lot more than we did before, but we also find time to check-in and support each other.
With the new job, comes flexibility. It is so nice to plan a vacation without needing to check with someone or request time off. We headed to Wisconsin to visit family and celebrate the wedding of Doug’s cousin.
Donovan had a great time on the plane!
We spent time with Grandma Kimmy and we really enjoyed the Milwaukee zoo!
We saw Great-Grandma Irene and Uncle Terry for dinner.
We arrived at the DeGroot house and Cathy hosted Ed’s birthday and invited Doug’s childhood buddies and their families over for a fun day. It is fun to see how their children grow!
We traveled to Antigo, Wisconsin to celebrate the wedding with the DeGroot family. The wedding was beautiful and the reception was a blast. Such great time with family!
We headed back to Milwaukee for a Memorial Day BBQ at Grandma Kimmy’s house. The weather was perfect! And, we enjoyed some quality time with Brian and Pip and their sweet children. We wish we lived closer to them!
Our trip was a busy one, but we wouldn’t trade it for the world! It was perfect seeing so many special family and friends and getting to do so much, too!
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